I have been separated now for 4 years and have 3 kids aged 12,10 and 7. I live in Ireland but have met a wonderful woman from Phoenix Arizona who is now living with me BUT my kids are determined to split us up as is my vindictive ex wife,who doesnt want to see me happy ever. I have decided to move to Phoenix and understandably the kids threw a fit. i have no life here. My ex wife threatens to not let me see the kids if i dont comply with her every demand. I am tired and want to start a new life but how will this affect my kids in the long run. Any advice is much appreciated.